I frequently question why I do this. Why do I feel guilty when I don’t post “enough”? Should I schedule the post even though it could stand more editing? Is it OK to re-use copy from a previous post? Are there too many book reviews and not enough life? Really, is this a blog or a journal? What’s the difference?
These are the questions that run through my brain at the oddest hours. They steal moments when I should be folding laundry or vacuuming. They nag at me every time I ask my sons to wait a few minutes while I finish writing. They also motivate me to get up and write when I’m zoning out in front of the television.
My life was in a different place when I launched alenaslife. I had more flexibility and freedom in my schedule. My writing assignments for work were centered around my family and personal interests, allowing me some overlap between work and blogging. Now that I’m trying to fit alenaslife around a full-time job and schoolwork, three boys full fall schedules and some semblance of a personal life, blogging isn’t so easy.
But, I always return to my personal bottom line. I love to write and I love to share. When I publish something that strikes a chord with readers and elicits comments and feedback, I am thrilled. I don’t understand the magic formula — some mix of topic, style and timing I think — but each time it happens, it’s like Christmas Day.
So, in crisis, I look to the blogosphere, where I frequently find wisdom and inspiration. About a month ago, I bookmarked a post I knew I’d need at some point. Liz Gumbinner’s Mom-101 is one of my favorite sources of humor about life. When she wrote about the blog world’s “existential angst,” I could relate. You can read the full post here, but this is the excerpt which struck me:
You serve best by doing the things you love most.
It struck me that this is the key, isn’t it? For all of us? Whatever it is. If you’re writing for love, writing for money, writing for fame and glory. Writing to bear witness or make change in the world, writing to understand your place in the world. Writing as an escape from your life for a few moments out of every hectic, whirlwind of a day. Writing to connect, writing to feel connected.
It’s all good.
It’s all okay.
It’s all important.
It’s how you serve.
It’s easy to look at people doing so much and think, I could be doing more. It’s easy to look at bloggers making wholesale changes and question your own path.
Use them to inspire you. Don’t use them to beat yourself up.
I will use Liz’s words to remind myself that whatever I blog, however often I do it, and on whichever topic strikes me that day — it’s all okay.
I would love to know what motivates or inspires you to do what you love.
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My guilt for not posting more frequently has been eating at me these past few weeks, thanks for this!
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Hey! I hope meeting Erin Morgenstern lived up to your expectations. Great post today, and I can relate on so many levels. I have no clue why I blog, other than I like sharing my life and maybe someday my children can see how much their mommy loves them in every possible way. I also struggle with the how often to post deal and the beat myself up issue when a post doesn’t resonate with my readers quite how I had hoped. So, I am just trying to post when I feel like it and when I really want to, instead of fulfilling some magic quota I have. I just hope I can stick to it!
Yes, Erin was terrific! And thanks for the comments. I agree that we should post when we want to, instead of when we have to. It’s bound to be better that way, right?